Help please! Its a long story, answer if you're in the mood to read!?

wow, that was a lot! you know what, i had something similar to this happen to me. like, this older kid was a creep and i didn't like him at all and he was a pervert but then after awhile i started to like him. not that he ever actually liked me, he just wanted to ****.. luckily for you though, that guy liked you before you even liked him! chances are he still likes you he's just a little more afraid to talk to you because he doesn't want you to get annoyed with him again. if he's telling you about personal family matters, then he must trust you and feel you can comfort him. if you want to be with him, then i'd say tell him how you feel now and i bet he'll be jumping for joy! i don't know if that was the advice you were looking for, but there you go. good luck(: