Does my boyfriend love me or not?

he made a statement that daphne was one of a kind after asked how she was as a co-actor coz of the kiss scene in stage play they had and once in december 2007 he got very platonic with a military girl,lifting her in her arms,kissing her on her cheeks twice repeatedly then on her head which are now revealed to me.he goes to the troops every year in december but recently i don't know about the military girl.earlier he would hold my hand,lift in the arms but now no holding by the waist or even shoulder though he does this to other women.though we go to public events together i dont find that chemistry and hes neither interested in posing with me.whats wrong?